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How Can Someone Be So Mean?

Journal Entry: Mon Jun 8, 2009, 5:41 AM


I just don't understand...

This woman who was watching some of my things while I moved to Chicago... has "lost" all my clothes. She claims she never received them. Her friend, who took the tote of clothes down to his car, also claims to have never received them. After realizing that my stuff was gone, all I cared about was getting the rest of it back from her. Through a ton of lies and unrelenting defensiveness... this woman has finally given my stuff to my parents (a week later) and insists that Olumide and I betrayed her and accused her. I never once accused her. She tried to pit Olumide and I against one another. I was nice, polite, non-accusatory, and apologetic to HER when I found out about my clothes. And yet... she has been completely unreasonable throughout this entire thing. She didn't even show up when I went to her apartment to get my things during an agreed upon time. She claimed her friend had cut her hand open... at 7 in the morning... on the day she just happened to have to meet me. It all seems fishy and she is acting like someone who is guilty.

I don't know about you guys... but if I was watching stuff for someone and something was missing... I would show my sincerest apologies and make sure that they got the rest of their stuff back. Then again... I guess that's what a nice person would do.

I just don't understand people like her... I was nothing but nice and I still got bitch thrown at me. As a lesson to you all... don't trust friends! Unless you grew up with them and they have shown that they can be trustworthy...

ugh... I need focus on letting this go... people like that do not deserve my time.

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no people like that do not deserve the time and attention that we end up giving them.
the best recourse would be to just be happy you have your stuff back and wash your hands of the culprit. just don't even bother with her in the future. people like to cast blame on others whenever they can and that is what she sounds like she was doing in this case.
in the meantime :hugs:
have a great rest of the week!
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Thank you so much :blushes:... I will do just that!

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Is the economy that bad? First, someone steals *ebony-chan's laundry out the laundromat, and now this. I swear, it's like you can't trust anybody anymore. Whatever happened to neighbors and friends looking out for one another? Ah well. I hope you got everything else back. And you're quite right. No point on dwelling on that kind of thing. You'll only drive yourself to distraction. My mom has that problem. She deals with things like that by talking about it over and over ad nauseum. And I am usually the unfortunate victim who has to play sound bored. =P

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First off that is very messed up that the lady lost all your clothes, and wont even take responsibility for it! I hope you can get the rest of it back or she will find what she "lost" and give it back to you. I have come to reilize just how cold and uncareing alot of people are since working at target, its pathetic really. I will never understand people like that. All they do is take advantage of others kindness for there own benifit. Makes me sick really as to how many people there really are like that in this world..

Personally id sue her over this, Because you are right this doese seem all a bit too fishy to me that she could of just "lost" them or never recived them. Sounds to me as if theres somethin else going on here and shes not telling you.

But dont let it get to you Lacey, like you said shes not worthy of your time.

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Not only that... she is saying how she was doing all of this as a favor to us, but we gave her tons of free stuff! Including our big screen tv! ugh... I'm not going to let this experience sower me about all people... not everyone one is evil.

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Awww :( yea I don't do that. I move on from things pretty quickly... I'm already past it. I just h ad to type it out... now I'm focused on re-building my wardrobe! Which I can't afford to do... but it's necessary.

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no not everyone is evil, you are right about that. but There are way too many people in this world who only seem to care about themselves if you ask me. I still say you should sue her.

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That will take money and time that I don't have... other wise I would.

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good point, well i hope you get ur stuff back though.

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23 deviants said Don't worry! Karma will bite her ass! :nod:
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22 deviants said REVENGE! :stab:
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9 deviants said Take the high road... don't sink down to their level. :cuddle:
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